'Pitti' (beating ) is the most loved word of Akshaj these days ...
He not just hits but also says 'pitti' while beating ..
and there is no kind of bais while giving his share of ' pitti' ---he gives it equally to us,his toys,sofa,bed ,door ..anything which/who does not work according to his will..
And stupidly I thought I can have some respite when he is sleeping ..but no ..picture this ...
One fine morning as usual I was sleeping next to him...
Pat came his slap to (as luck would have it) my face
I looked at him still sleeping ...
say what you can do in this situation ??
After 5 minutes he woke up and said 'meetu ro rahi hai'(meetu is a girl his age living next door)
It was easy to undertstand his dream ..in his dream he was beating meetu and she was crying..
All I wanted to say him at that time was not meetu but it was me who should actually cry !!
His 'pitti' thing is becoming really difficult to handle ...generally we will ask him to say sorry ..which he would do but after some time he will again hit ..
If we scold him he cries a lot and we know he is scared as he would do no. 1.
If we try to make him understand that he should not do this ..people get hurt ...he will start slapping himself ....
Now if he is with other kids I am very scared as to what he will do ...he has a very short temper..he just wants his thing to done the way he wants and that too pretty quickly..otherwise all tantrums start ..
3 comments:
I think he is too young to make him say sorry.. Instead , if you just raise your voice & afterwards tell him like good boys don't do this , he will understand that he should not do that thing again..
I hope he plays with other kids of his age..
Aww baby. I hv seen many kids go thru this phase. I hope he feels better soon.
@pRasad
Yeah we are trying everything..he does understand sorry a little bit .
@swaram
its a commom problem I wish there was some common solution for this as well :-)
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