Sunday, August 29, 2010

Happy Birthday -II and III

Birthday has long gone but still its never too late to update :-)

2nd Birthday was janamvaar as per the Hindu calender..there was a pooja followed by lunch to panditji.Akshaj first had 'haldi' applied on him followed by bath and then pooja.


Then came the birthday bash...

I prepared 'Happy Birthday' banner modifying the last year's but it was still a lot of effort.I could only do it from 12 to 2.20 at night since before that there was no time..it took 3-4 days for this to complete ..I also made some stars from leftover wrapping paper as Akshaj loves them a lot ..




And Akku thourghly enjoyed his birthday ...he didn't sleep for whole day ...he was totally charged up for his birthday bash..kept on singing 'happy ..to you"

He danced a lot ..ran a lot and had loads of fun..

We couldn't take many photos this year as we were busy with all the kids ...



Monday, August 9, 2010

The year that it was...

What a year this year turned out to be ,,,this year saw the transformation of easily mouldable baby(except last few months of first year) to a super-active-not to be fooled complete brat.It was a totally a exhausting, totally entertaining ride which has left all of us wanting for more..

In his first year Akshaj was very sweet, he would go to anybody, not at all clingy and he will happily play on his own.His growing up has transformed him into sometimes super clingy,many times very difficult to handle 2 year old. But what makes him even more likeabale now is actually is his totally bratiness combined with total innocence at times.

Second year started with his finally walking with his two feet after lots of discussions over when will he start to walk.And with last barrier of his dependency w.r.t movement over ..there was no stopping him ...he was everywhere ..from dining tables...to drawers ,cupboards ..we suddenly found us with no place safe enough to keep important things away it away from him.This off course led us to reaching home to know that we have one less piece of house hold item with us.

This year also made us realize how tough parenting can be as apart from his regular bouts of cold and fever which made us try allopathy,homeopathy and aurveda ,we had to hear that he might have to start wearing spects soon and had to take him to speech therapy.Which essetially means we have to keep monitoring him for any signs of his poor vision and further delays in speaking.Analyzing your own child is the most tough task to do. And maybe he knows how confused his parents are ..as he keeps us guessing on his progress always.Some things he will do will amaze us but other things will get us worried.

The words which came out after so much effort became so much more sweet ....and with starting of words being him opened a one more chapter of parental bliss ..and like all parents we  think he is blessed with the sweetest voice ...its so much fun to hear him say new word and give it twist ..like 'godi' becoming 'dogi' ,'chalo' becoming 'shalo' and the likes..
He progessed well and learnt to argue very well with his one words.

He has grown up but still continues to be a baby.He will say 'chodo' or even ask to leave the room with 'jaoo' or a 'bye'  but after sometime he would ask us to take him in 'godi' and loves to be hugged and kissed and be made fussed about.

This year has also been about realizing what being a mother is all about .Its about  being loved in a way like never before.Like when its only me who can make his crying stop as he will just be held by me ,when he searches for me saying 'mummy mummy' in the house,when he comes to me with a half torn nail and goes back to what he was doing once nail is taken care.

It has been one great year !!

Some tidbits of 'AkkuSpeaks':


Generally I give him one jelly after coming from office ..but the jelly was over so couldn't give him ..

So the coversation went:

Akshaj:Jelly:
Me:Over

Akshaj:Toffee
Me:Thakham (he says 'khatam' opposite)
Akshaj:Choco
Me:Over
Akshaj:Keela(banana),namkeen ..etc etc ..(i really had to run away from the room to get something quickly for him)

 One of my cousin had come to visit us .When she was leaving she says:

Cousin:OK Akku,bye ,I am leaving ,miss me
Akku:Ok Chalo,my sandals ,shoes and brings them.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Happy Birthday I

Celebration time has started in Boy Wonder's house.Akshaj turned 2 on 26th July.As he was awake till 12'o clock to celebrate his birthday he cut the cake(Actually leftovers of the cake I was making)in night ..seeing the joy on his face as he was saying 'Happy Happy' again and again was truly something to cherish
This time I attempted to make a zebra car cake with the little time I got ..cake turned out to be Ok but the birthday boy was was very happy with it ...it was quite tough to keep him away from it till it was cut ..and he was happily clapping and singing 'happy to you'(he cannot say birthday)


With cake cutting over it was time to march out Pretty indecisive family that we are ...we had decided to go to a theme park but instead we went to Lumbini Gardens..a lake with some toy rides etc placed for the kids..It was quite enjoyable and Bangalore weather made sure that we have a lovely day ...
He sat in different rides and his favorite chai shai(toy train).we were skeptical of putting him alone in toy train at first ,even he was a little scared but with all of us around him he became confident and enjoyed his first train journey a lot..

As his confidence grew so did ours so much so that we took him in 'Colombus' with us that too in last seat...actually only I had sat in that before that too a very long time ago so I didn't remember that it goes very high ..but we got a reality check pretty quick and asked it to be stopped.Poor Akshaj was just saying 'chalo chalo' when it finally stopped.But after sometime when we asked him how it was he said 'accha hai'...

It was just a perfect birthday ...since his grandmom was out of station his birthday party is postponed ..and that's why this post is titled 'Happy Birthday 1'..he is going to have 3 birthdays this time...2nd will be his 'janamvar' according to hindu calender and third will be a party with all family and friends sponsored by his grandparents.Talk about spoiling him !!